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You are not obligated to forgive. Unforgiven is on an external side of a boundary where feelings of mistrust, disloyal, deception and abuse is located. These feelings are felt and often actualized by the offender. The offender can be a stranger, a former friend or alleged friend, relative, acquaintance or non-acquaintance. Restoraton of a relatonship is dependent on you. You have the option to forgive and not restore a relationship, to not forgive and not restore a relationship, or even not forgive but restore the relationship. It is all dependent on YOU. Unforgiveness is an affirmation of a person's decision to not forgive. Yes, an affirmation. Many perceive unforgiveness as not having peace or holding a grudge. Yet, when an action is egregious and one overlooks it, it is perceived as having selective amnesia of some sorts. Yes, unforgiveness can be an affirmation on a decision to not forgive. This affirmation can be aligned with having peace. It can be peace in your decision m...

What are your reset days or reset moments? Reset or starting over can be great for your energy,confidence, and outlook. It may seem arduous or daunting to reset your priorities, goals, wants, desires, and relationships. It starts with looking within yourself and being confidant that resetting yourself will result in a positive outcome. Resetting yourself is a form of nurture and nourishment to your inner self or soul. When you are in a space of wanting to resetting yourself, consider confiding in a trustworthy person or group of people who want you to succeed genuinely. Resetting yourself or having reset moments is self care.